I have a problem, and I do not know how to solve it. People have never been a particular strong point of mine, especially when they are very ...vengeful.
Over a year ago I was part of SUU's production of Our Town. One of the hair girls gave me an awful time when I came in for a make-up fitting - she said a number of unflattering things about my skin. I decided to handle the situation by explaining about my skin to her and then never letting her be the one to do my hair. You can imagine how glad I was when the show was over because I thought I would not have to deal with her.
Unfortunately, I was wrong.
She's in two of my classes this semester, and it's clear she hasn't forgotten either. In both of our classes she seems to take any chance to glare at me across the room, and sneers any time I try to offer a comment to the class. I could've taken that, but she decided to take it further. Walking out of math the other day she began telling her friends about how annoying the know-it-alls in her English class were and how the ones on the front row were the absolute worst. I happen to be in her English class...and I'm one of the only ones at the front that ever says anything.
How am I supposed to handle someone who seems so intent on being vindictive towards me? She knew I was walking behind them - we made eye contact right before she cut in front of me. I would try a direct confrontation, but I honestly don't think that would work. She seems to be set on being vindictive towards me, and I hate it.
What do I do?
1 comment:
Okay well first of all don't stoop to her level. You can't give her that satisfaction - it's most likely what she wants. Just keep doing what you are doing - being the better person and not bringing her down. I see nothing wrong though with, when the occasion arises, making a witty reply to something she says - but not vengefully; that would just make it worst. Don't let her get to ya.
You are so much better than that.
Love ya,
Hilary
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